Friday, September 1, 2017

The Secret of Truly Effective Affirmations By Song Chengxiang

Affirmation has been used by successful people for centuries. It has helped many ordinary people achieve extraordinary results in their lives. It has turned many failures into successes. It has made many miracles happen in the history of human evolution. However, the majority of people who use affirmation find that it doesn't work. Why is this the case? What are the elements that people have missed when they use affirmation techniques? I constantly ask myself these questions, and seek for the answers. The result is, no one book gives the complete answer. Some tips given in one book work for a specific situation, but not for others. Other books give other tips that work for other situations, but not for this. I have tested and filtered out the ineffective ones, and left only what I call the ultimate effective technique secrets.

The purpose of affirmation
Before I give you the effective techniques, I must make you understand the true purpose of affirmation. Simply stated, the purpose of affirmation is to pass a command from the conscious mind to the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind has the ability, in anything it accepts as true, to do whatever it takes to turn it into reality. The purpose of an affirmation is to pass a message to the subconscious mind, and to make it believe the message is true. So this brings us to the first element of an effective affirmation.

The affirmation must be believable to the subconscious mind
Most of the affirmations people use, fail at this first stage. They tend to give an unrealistic message to the subconscious mind, hoping for a positive response. If you are financially broke, and you say to yourself "I earn $100,000 per year", is this believable to your mind? If your body is totally out of shape, and you say to yourself "I am very attractive", is this believable to your mind? I doubt it.

What if you are currently broke, and you want to make $100,000 per year? What if you are out of shape, and you want to make yourself attractive? I find the best and easiest way is to use the word "I choose" in your affirmation.

Instead of saying "I earn $100,000 per year," say "I choose to earn $100,000 per year."

Instead of saying "I am very attractive," say "I choose to feel that people find me attractive." Do you feel the difference?

The subconscious mind seeks for proof
There is a misconception that the affirmation must be repeated thousands of times before it can be installed in the subconscious mind. This is not necessarily true. You can use the repetition method to embed your affirmation, but there is an easier way. It is, at the time you find the proof, state your affirmation. Many people stay in poverty because they associate pain with money. Whenever they spend their money, they think of their bills, loans etc. This will automatically lead to ultimate pain. It is the feeling you attach to money that makes you rich or poor.

How can we turn this to our advantage? Instead of feeling pain when spending money, what if we associate pleasure with it? Next time when you go out shopping, at the moment you take out your money or credit card, say this affirmation to yourself "I always have more than enough to spend."

See how you feel. This works because the subconscious mind sees the proof. As long as you have some money left in your pocket, this affirmation is always true, so the subconscious mind will believe it.

How about if we combine the first and second methods together and make an affirmation like this: "I choose to feel that I always have more than enough to spend." Say this at the time you spend your money. See how you feel. You don't have to repeat it thousands of times, a few times of real life proof will make your subconscious mind believe it.

The affirmation must trigger feelings
A fact about the subconscious mind is that it does not speak in words, you can only communicate with it through feelings, and emotions. There are two methods that you can use to trigger your feelings. The first method is to use words that involve feelings. Words like "fun, enjoyable, comfortable, delightful" will work effectively. The second method is to use imagination. Visualize that the situation stated in your affirmation has already come true. See yourself in that situation and feel the feelings.

The affirmation must obey the 3 Ps factor
The 3 Ps are Positive, Present tense and Personal. Affirmations must be stated positively. Instead of saying "I am not fat," say "I choose to stay slim." The reason for this is that before the mind knows the meaning of "I am not fat," it must think of what fat means first. So saying that statement will inevitably lead to the feeling of being fat.

Affirmations must be in the present tense. Many books mention this. However, I only agree to some extent. If you say "I have a luxury car", your mind will not believe you. The reason I include this here is that once it is combined with the first technique, it will work perfectly. Now say "I choose to have a luxury car". Your mind will do its best to bring it into reality.

Affirmations must be personal. Your subconscious mind only works for you, not for others. If you say "Ann loves me", it will not be effective, because you have no control over Ann. Now say "I choose to feel that Ann really loves me". This time you are in control, because you can control your own feelings.

Personal development affirmations should be stated in the comparative
"I am confident" may not be as effective as "I am becoming more and more confident." An even better affirmation might be "I choose to feel more and more confident." The reason for using the comparative, is because there is no end to how much more confident you can become. Otherwise, your mind may think you are already confident enough, and it will not need to do any more work.

These 5 techniques are the most effective ones that I have found from my research on affirmations. If you can use all the 5 techniques, I guarantee your results will be amazing. Even if you only use one or two of the techniques stated here, you will find your affirmations will become far more effective.

Monday, August 28, 2017

How to use the word YES AND NO in our daily routine - The secret code

Most of the citizens of any race are quite unaware about the impact of the word that they are using especially this word YES and NO. In this blog I will reveal the impact of those words.
When is the time that you refuse to anybody? That's my question, but you"re not going to answer it now, some of us are making a mouthflowering word to explain something in order to get their attention or symphaty to you. My point now is how do you refuse and how do you please anybody that is concerned with any situation mingling this fact. Well, here it is:

What is the importance of YES

Yes - means used as a function word to express assent or agreement, but how do we use this one, logically, certainly, somebody is still using this word even they don"t agree to something. but do"nt you know that there is a secret code behind the word YES if we use this word with the code in a perfect timing, we are very succesful to any feilds of situation or endeavor that we have i discover a code that will be incorporated so that this word will be very powerful to any of the conversation. let say your boss is commanding you that you will do a task that is not already aligned to your skills or specialty because of the lack of manpower in your company, your superior now is making an ultimate remedy to relieve him/her to the pressures, so how do you react or reply them in a nice way without pinching their egos, that`s a very though situation right, and it might, you will punch them, here in arab world is mostly happening this scenario because of the lack of manpower to any companies majority of the company here is short on manpower. The management is intentionally doing this in order to save an expenditures, but for me this is not the right way.

When you will use the word NO

No - Means automatically refusing, disagree and there is no more remedy to this word once you use it. And you will face a social dilemma associated this word its tough right. But I will give you a code to solve this issue. Using this word is not always in a perfect time. We can can only use this word NO to answer puzzles or true or false questionaire use the word NO only if a situation is agreeable to the word YES. Now you can now refuse your boss or anybody without humiliating them. Say it then stop. How?
You can refuse or agree professionally by:
Using the word YES with the code BUT that is the secret code folks, It's a BUT
Use it the way YES BUT......refuse, agree and whatever you like, just use the word YES BUT you will be save in any unfavorable situation.

Thursday, August 24, 2017

How to use Affirmations in order to get the results that you want

Here are the techniques that you need to do:

The power of the spoken word should never be underestimated when we are looking to deliberately attract and manifest positive change in our lives.

Words are largely responsible for the people that we are today; the words that we use to describe ourselves, as well as the words of others, have a serious impact on the people that we grow up to be.

Be it positive or negative, a single spoken word or sentence can plant a seed within the brain, which if watered with enough attention over a period of time, will grow to become a reality.

It is important to remember that the subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a fact and something that you have imagined. Therefore, if you have spent a lifetime using words such as shy/lazy/fat/unsuccessful to describe yourself, whether they are a true description or not, this is what will come to manifest in your life.

So as you can see, in order to emit an entirely different (and more positive) frequency to the universe, you need to begin using your words differently. This is where the power of affirmations can come in handy.


An affirmation is a repeated and spoken statement, preferably spoken in first person and using the past tense. When we use affirmations, we are trying to align our emotions and frequency with our intent. This is why it is important that when using affirmations, we speak as though we have already achieved our goals – as this helps to promote within us the positive emotions and thoughts that we want the universe to manifest more of.

For example, someone that is hoping to lose weight might choose to say the following affirmation whilst looking in the bathroom mirror every morning.

'I love having a strong and healthy body.'

Because the law of attraction works on the basis that the universe responds to our thoughts and energies, when we use affirmations we are raising our emotional frequency with increased positivity – aligning our thoughts and energies with our 'intent'. This is why affirmations are such an effective tool for deliberate attraction, as they assist to speed up the manifestation process when we are looking to attract something into our lives.

Repetition is key when using affirmations. This is because the more we tell ourselves something – I.e. 'I am a magnet for all the good that life has to offer' – the deeper the message is ingrained and accepted into our sub-conscious, manifesting it in our lives.

Your 3-Step Guide To Using Affirmations

1. Write Down Your Affirmation. Write affirmations that are goal orientated, in present tense and as though they have already been achieved.

2. Believe In It. In order to attract positive change into your life, you need to be emitting the most positive frequency possible. So, feel good whilst you repeat your affirmations to yourself. Really listen to your words and allow the positivity in what you are saying to wash over you.

3. Repeat Often. The more you repeat your affirmations, the deeper they will become ingrained in your subconscious. Repetition creates belief. So, tell yourself something enough times and it will become real for you – manifesting in your life.

Tips and Hints for Using Affirmations

- Leave affirmations around the house or workplace. Write your affirmations on post-it notes and stick them to your bathroom mirror, your fridge, your wardrobe door – absolutely anywhere you can think of! You can even have them as your pc screensaver at work.

- Use affirmations that are believable to you. When you use affirmations that are unbelievable to you, you doubt what you are saying. This will only result in more negativity, preventing your desires from manifesting. Therefore, if you are struggling to believe in the words of your affirmations, put the words 'I am in the process of…' or 'I have decided…' at the begging of your affirmations. This will make your affirmations truer for you, raising your frequency to one of positivity. i.e. 'I am in the process of attracting more money.'

- Try saying 'thank-you' at the beginning of your affirmations. Saying 'thank-you' is a great way of acting 'as if', as you are telling yourself that you are already enjoying something.

- Practice affirmations first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

- Use affirmations during meditation. If you practice meditation, try incorporating your affirmations into your meditation sessions. A meditative mind is one of relaxation and calm – the perfect state for affirmations.

- Concentrate on no more than a few affirmations at a time. This will help you to keep focus on what it is that you want, helping to make your affirmations more successful.